How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term
Core Arguments Men and women have evolved different primary mating preferences due to asymmetrical reproductive biology. Women, who bear higher biological costs in reproduction (e.g., pregnancy), tend to prioritize partners who show signs of resource acquisition and stability (e.g., ambition, status, earning capacity). Men, by contrast, tend to prioritize cues related to fertility and health, such as physical attractiveness and relative youth. Mating strategies and preferences differ significantly depending on the relationship context (long-term vs. short-term). For long-term, committed relationships, both sexes value traits like intelligence, kindness, and dependability. In short-term mating, however, physical appearance becomes more important for women, while men